SINGLE MUMS...

SOME WOMEN ARE BUILT BY THE FIRE. YET, THERE ARE SOME THAT ARE THE FIRE!
I AM ONE...
HOW I HANDLED MY SO CALLED SHAME AS A SINGLE MUM YEARS AGO.
MY MENTALITY WAS KEY. HOW I JUDGED MYSELF HELPED ME OVERCOME.
HEAR THIS..
She knew it was time,
What for was the mystery
but focused; she remained.
She turned her back on anything
that no longer served her strengths
nor taught her vital lessons with her weaknesses.
She said no without explanation
& assigned validation back just to parking spots.
She was fierce but gentle
and authentic in her approach to live even if it meant standing alone.
She knew the hard days weren't over but stood proud that she had already survived some of the worst.
She laughed in the midst of a judgemental mindsets of people and gathered her worth with all the pieces of herself that have held her together throughout those years.
She knew it was time
What for was the mystery,
but focused; she remained.
She learnt that motherhood provided unconditional love doesn't have boundaries, it's pure in all its forms.
Family are rare connections.
Friendships are like shoes, not all will fit but when some do it's like you have won the lotto.
She learnt that every love was different and how important it was to keep her heart open for the possibility of being able to experience it just one more time.
 
SO BE FOCUSED GIRLFRIEND.
YOUR MISTAKE IS NOT YOU.
YOU ARE A QUEEN.
YOU ARE RELEVANT.
YOU ARE IMPORTANT.
YES YOU MESSED UP BUT GET UP AND ASK YOUR MAKER TO HELP AND RENEW YOU. YES HE WILL..
THANK GOD, GOD IS NOT MAN
YOU WILL OVERCOME.
I DID AND YOU TOO WILL.
WE ARE BORN TO WIN.
IGNORE DISTRACTORS.
NO ONE HAS ANY RIGHT TO JUDGE YOU.
YOU OWN YOUR STORY, MAKE IT INTERESTING.